I just finished reading George Bush's Decision Points, his post-presidential 47 million page memoir. In his book, he designates each chapter to explain the reasoning behind some of the major decisions he made in office. It was very intriguing to read the behind the scenes details. And as if I didn't already know this, I am confident that you should NOT elect me to be the president. I know I was probably set to be a good option, but I just don't think I'm willing. Thank you for not voting.
As funny as it sounds, I may have learned a thing or two about decision making from his memoir. I do try to glean SOMETHING from the books I read, even if I'm fighting through it tooth and nail. [sidenote: The hubs doesn't understand why I continue reading books I hate just to say I finished it. I do it. All the time. It's annoying, but I can't NOT finish a book I've started.]
So, in honor of my recent learnings, we held a G-4 Summit at the house today.
I cancelled our beach plans due to temper tantrum, lack of gratitude, squabbling, et al. I sent all kids back to bedrooms to put their street clothes back on.
Bewilderment.
I called the Big Kids in and said, "Listen. Here's why we're not going to the beach. {insert blah blah blah reasonings}. If you can have a meeting with the Babies and decide to change your ways, I'll reconsider."
Tears turned to smiles and off they went.
"BABIES, BABIES, COME HERE!!. We need to have a meeting," Buster says. Babies come a-runnin'.
"Um, I don't really know what a meeting is," he says looking at Big Sis.
From there, Big Sis steps up to the podium with confidence and control.
"Guys," she begins, "We need to change our attitudes. Mommy said we can go to the beach if we start acting thankful and quit screaming. So can we guys? GUYS! STOP SCREAMING AND LISTEN TO ME! CAN WE BE THANKFUL OR NOT? Ugh. Fine."
Big Kids enter my room to give me the report, while Babies continue with their screaming, wailing and gnashing of teeth.
"Hey Mommy? We decided to be thankful. Sooooooo, can we go to the beach now?"
Decision Point: Summits are effective in bringing about peace.
In Switzerland.
3 comments:
I just read that book too! Good read.
I read Mrs. Laura Bush's book and it only took me 6 1/2 months to finish it. And I, too, had to push my way through it. Don't know if I can do the same for George at this juncture.
As for Big Sis leading the G-4, I'm with her. She did all she could do and I think the reward was worthy of her efforts.
Memes
This sounds like our house... cancelling fun because of poor attitudes - only with HALF the amount of children.
Love.
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